Principles are ways of successfully dealing with reality to get what you want out of life.
Ray Dalio, one of the world’s most successful investors and entrepreneurs, cites principles as his key to success.
In 1975, Ray Dalio founded Bridgewater Associates, out of his two-bedroom apartment in New York City. Over forty years later, Bridgewater has grown into the largest hedge fund in the world and the fifth most important private company in the United States (according to Fortune magazine), and Dalio himself has been named to TIME’s list of the 100 most influential people in the world. Along the way Dalio discovered unique principles that have led to his and Bridgewater’s unique success. It is these principles, and not anything special about Dalio, that he believes are the reason behind whatever success he has had. He is now at a stage in his life that he wants to pass these principles along to others for them to judge for themselves and to do whatever they want with them.
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Recognize that conflicts are essential for great relationships...
. . . because they are how people determine whether their principles are aligned and resolve their differences. Everyone has his or her own principles and values, so all relationships entail a certain amount of negotiation or debate over how people should be with each other. What you learn about each other will either draw you together or drive you apart. If your principles are aligned and you can work out your differences via a process of give-and-take, you will draw closer together. If not, you will move apart. Open discussion of differences ensures that there are no misunderstandings. If that doesn't happen on an ongoing basis, gaps in perspective will widen until inevitably there is a major clash.
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How can we find out our differences without conflict and instead in peaceful conversations?
By wanting it and by practicing it perhaps with you picking a mediator to help you do that.You can get a sense of that in our video Case of the Week which you can see on my free app Principles in Action that’s available on the Apple App Store.
In these polarized times, frank discussions often expose emotional and ideological differences. In a work setting, how important is it for employees’ values to align if misalignment could create conflict? And is it better to have diverse opinions among staff, or a more unified mission and culture?
Conflict and diversity of opinion if worked through well are very powerful forces for finding out what is true and what to do about it.
While I agree with you, I’ve noticed some people want real conversation while others jump straight to hurt feelings—one‑word insults instead of thinking. How do you share an observation without being accused of taking sides? Why is curiosity so often met with attack?
Some people want to engage in thoughtful disagreement to learn more and consider other possibilities while others treat disagreements as threats and are prompted to fight. Each person can decide what they want to do and which type of people they want to be with.
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- Get and Stay in Sync
Recognize that conflicts are essential for great relationships...
Any person or organization can adopt Principles to better achieve their goals.
Learn what Principles are and how they are applied at Principles.com
