Black and white portrait of Ray Dalio: Narrator and Creator of Life Principles

Principles are ways of successfully dealing with reality to get what you want out of life.

Ray Dalio, one of the world’s most successful investors and entrepreneurs, cites principles as his key to success.

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Don't feel bad about your mistakes or those of others. Love them!

People typically feel bad about their mistakes because they think in a shortsighted way about the bad outcome and not about the evolutionary process of which mistakes are an integral part. I once had a ski instructor who had also given lessons to Michael Jordan, the greatest basketball player of all time. Jordan, he told me, reveled in his mistakes, seeing each of them as an opportunity to improve. He understood that mistakes are like those little puzzles that, when you solve them, give you a gem. Every mistake that you make and learn from will save you from thousands of similar mistakes in the future.

Michael Jordan explains it well in this clip.

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If I think it's a weakness to make a lot of mistakes, how can I feel good and not lose confidence for pursuing my goals when I do make mistakes?

Making a lot of mistakes just means you haven’t yet learned how to do the thing you’re trying to do. When that is the case consider whether you should keep trying to learn or should instead work with someone who is strong where you are weak. I any case, get and appreciate the message that you’re not good at it and don’t stubbornly do the thing you’re not good at and keep failing.

How do you go about seeing the bigger picture, moving on and learning from mistakes?

1) I remind myself of this principle and the principle of pain+reflection=progress when I encounter painful failure, 2) I get in the habit of doing it so it comes more naturally, and 3) I meditate which helps give me the equanimity that helps me see it that way.

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